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SOME SOCIAL RULES THAT MAY HELP YOU
《Quora Digest》 October 3, 2022 1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to; 2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes. 3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner. 4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem; 5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public; 6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time; 7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative; 8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all; 9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're; 10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you. 11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately; 12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will; 13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next; 14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness; 15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect; 16. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude; 17. Never give advice until you’re asked; 18. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary; 19. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly - just stay out of it; 20. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. Moreso, eye contact is as important as your speech; and 21. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren. 22.After reading a good message try to say "Thanks for the message". APPRECIATION remains the easiest way of getting what you don't have.... ✅A Little Gift From The Creator: We all know that simplicity is the key to happiness… 1. 2. .............. 3. Never shake a hand sitting down. 4. Never go broke to impress others. 5. Never eat the last piece of something you didn't buy. 6. Always have the ambition to be better. 7. Protect who is behind you, and respect who is beside you. 8. Take 1-3 seconds pause after getting asked a question. 9. Don't beg for a relationship. 10. Work out at least 4x a week. 11. If you are not invited, don't ask to go. 12. Always carry cash. 13. Dress well no matter what the occasion. 14. Listen, nod, and most of all make eye contact. 15. Find multiple ways to make money. 16. You need discomfort Whether it's physical discomfort in the gym or mental discomfort when chasing your goals. Embracing discomfort is the key to long- term fulfilment. 17. Consistency always wins Talented but not consistent? You'll fail. Hard-working but not consistent? You'll fail. So long as you have consistency - You'll win (eventually) 18. You don't wallow in self-pity. You don't feel sorry for yourself. You realize that it doesn't get you anywhere, and it's just a waste of time. 你不會沉湎于自怨自艾-責備自己,你知道那樣做沒用,只是浪費時間。 请大家一起呼吁:祖国文明建设应从央视和国营媒体带头禁刊酒类广告做起。酒,从精神到肉体已经伤害了无数国人! |
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